New to exploring kink and not sure which toys to try first? Here are 10 must-try kink toys I recommend for beginners looking to expand their toolbox and dive deeper into their kinky fantasies.
Tag: bdsm
The Axovus ball chain flogger is a great option for folks who have some experience with impact play already and are looking to explore more. The steel ball chain tails give it an uniquely intense sting and they can even be used for painless sensory play!
The RoomFun silicone bondage kit includes a set of handcuffs, ankle cuffs, a bit gag, a leash, and two connector clips. For those who like the look and feel of silicone, this is a good beginner bondage set that is both attractive as well as vegan!
Whether you’re a beginner to BDSM in general or just interested in trying something new, it can be difficult to know how to start exploring a new kink. Where do you look for information? How do you bring it up to a partner? How do you improve your skills? Here are some steps to help guide you through the process.
Thinking about booking a session with a sex worker? Whether your goals are to learn a new skill, motivate yourself to be more productive, or to simply enjoy the company of a gorgeous companion, sex workers provide necessary services to countless people every day. Here are five common reasons people choose to hire a sex worker.
I grew up in the Girl Scouts of America and it became a huge part of who I am today. I had the opportunity to experience so many great things growing up that I owe to the organization. Girl Scouting gave me the confidence to be a feminist…and the practical skills to be a kinkster.
If you’ve ever wondered about my name and what it means to be a submissive feminist, I’ve spelled it out for you in this piece. While it may seem “ironic” at first glance, I’ve grown to realize that it makes perfect sense to combine these identities. My sexual submission is a feminist act at the core.
As children, my friends and I imagined being sorted into our houses and attending classes at Hogwarts. However, now in my late 20s, I find myself wanting more information about the wizarding world through the perspective of adult witches. As a sex blogger, this begs the question: what would sexuality look like if the wizarding world of Harry Potter were real? Here are ten concepts from Harry Potter that could apply to the sex lives of witches and wizards alike.
Happy Halloween from Platonic Pillow Talk! This week, Jen and SF discuss all the gothic themes in kink and sex–including some kinky historical gossip they didn’t teach you in school. From horror movies that make us wet to anonymous masked sexual encounters, this episode is full of spooky sex talk. We’re not the only ones with a murder kink, right?
This week, SF and Jen discuss sensory deprivation and sensory overload. Learn about all the exciting and horrific ways you can play with your partner’s senses in a kinky scene. Combine multiple sense restrictions for even more fun!
A “munch” is a gathering of kinky people in a low-key, vanilla setting. They’re perfect for folks who want to meet kinky friends without the pressures of a play party. Learn all about what to expect at your first munch in this Q&A guide.
Everyone has a little fun fact about themselves. Some people can juggle or solve the Rubik’s cube. My talent is something I only share in front of a very specific audience: I can orgasm without any physical stimulation.
SF recaps her weekend adventures with a new partner that involves a cuckolding scene. She and Jen discuss the origin of the word cuckold and what the kink is all about.
Going to a play party and don’t know what to pack in your bag? I’ve got you covered! Read up on the ten essentials I never go to a play party without bringing.
This week, SF and Jen discuss the topic of kink shame. How do you cope with being ashamed of all your filthy kinks? SF delves into the psychology of fetishisms and discusses what sex therapy is really like. TW: Mention of incest role-play.
This week, SF tells Jen about her evolving kinks and limits with a new partner. They discuss the difference between hard and soft limits, how limits can change over time, and their personal experiences with being aroused by things that disgust them.
SF and Jen babble about daddy kinks. They discuss gender-bending the daddy kink, moan about their fave daddies, and analyze the strange connotations of certain words.
HOLO Whips is a one-man company that makes some of the coolest custom toys. Their use of acrylic handles combines both beauty and functionality to their floggers.
SF teaches Jen all about the kinky world of play parties. Featuring fireplay masters and apprentices, recreational electrocution, and ceremonial robes and hoods.
SF and Jen swoon over their old teacher crushes as they discuss teacher kinks. Featuring a robust appreciation for sweater vests, competing to be the teacher’s pet, and roleplaying that comes with homework
I’d never heard of leather jacks before but when I saw them hanging in Agreeable Agony’s shop, I knew I needed one. Read about what makes this tool the ultimate thuddy-style impact toy and how you can get your hands on a custom-designed leather jack of your own.