SF and Jen explore using safewords, including non-verbal cues and the traffic light system. Featuring aardvarks, a series of elaborate winks, and long German words you can’t pronounce.
Tag: bdsm
Two friends from New York show me one of their favorite sex shops in the city. Find out what makes Purple Passion/DV8 such a huge hit with NYC kinksters!
If you’re into mean, thuddy toys, check out the Hex Nut Impact Stick by RavenHawkToys. It’s heavy, compact, and packs one hell of a punch! Read about why I fell in love with this simple impact stick.
I ordered a completely customized studded paddle from Nefarious Kinks and couldn’t believe the finished product! Find out why I highly recommend this one-man company for all your kinky woodworking needs.
A lot of people are familiar with veganism when it comes to food, but not many people consider it as an option when it comes to their sex life. Salem and I discuss why people go vegan in the bedroom and tell you about our favorite vegan retailers.
A while back, Tantus released five paddles to their line of toys, but these aren’t ordinary leather paddles. Like their dildos, these paddles are all made of 100% pure body-safe silicone.
Agreeable Agony produces a lot of impact toys, but they’re also big on rope and wax! I try out two of their mini teacup candles during a few wax play sessions to see just how good they are.
Agreeable Agony makes impact toys called “Petal Slappers” out of bicycle tubing and they’re a great, inexpensive toy to add to your collection!
Guest reviewer Salem and I test out two of the most popular electro-play “zappers” on the market and give you all the information you need to choose one for yourself!
Nefarious Kinks is a one-man company based in Washington that has been crafting paddles and other kink toys for almost two years. Find out what makes his work so great!
Body-writing is a largely versatile kink that anyone from beginners to those with years of experience can enjoy. It’s a simple activity for many kinksters and can often incorporate other kinks, as well. A little creativity and a writing tool is all you need to kick off an enjoyable evening.
I always want to promote that sex and BDSM be practiced as safely as possible to avoid unnecessary risks and minimize unwanted pain. To make aftercare and sex safety more accessible for everyone, I suggest everyone invest in a “sex safety kit”.
BDSM is something not everyone is comfortable talking about with their support system, but it may be an important aspect of therapy. For those who … Read More ›
In order to maintain a healthy relationship, especially within the BDSM community, we need to be aware of signs of unhealthy behaviour. Of course, these red flags can appear in any kind of relationship–but it’s extra important when you’re in a relationship with a power-dynamic or a heightened risk of injury.
Meet the Fantasy Gag by Tantus! It’s a fun little toy that will have Dominants amused and submissives kept in check! Just try to sass back with this baby, I dare you.
Bound is unlike any dildo I’ve seen before–one that caters specifically to the BDSM community. This gorgeous toy has an extra-special texture to it that rope-geeks … Read More ›
Wax play is a great activity that beginners and experienced kinksters can enjoy. It’s simple and pretty easy to do safely if you follow a few basic rules.
Sub drop is a natural part of BDSM for some people, but it can be difficult to navigate. Learn to better understand what’s going on in you or your partner’s body and how to combat the negative side effects of kink.
Subspace (noun): An altered, euphoric state of mind that some submissives/bottoms experience in intense scenes.
Did you know it’s extremely common for survivors of assault to have rape fantasies? Read about how some survivors use “rape play” as a means to cope with sexual trauma.
Discipline is part of the core focus of BDSM but what is punishment? How does it differ from “funishment?” Read about the psychology behind punishments and some examples you can use in your exploration of kink and behavior modification.